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Surround yourself with positive people.

"your vibe attracts your tribe" - It's important to surround yourself with positive people !

So get this, I'm on this positive journey, trying to be in a good, happy place, focused and then I find myself being brought down by someone around me!  Have you ever heard of the saying "your vibe attracts your tribe" ? Well..... that's what it's all about for me. I thrive off of others, I need like-minded people to lift me up, to encourage me and most importantly to support me! It's so important that the people in your life support you and have a positive effect on you.

Think about the people in your life, do they support you? Do they encourage you? Do they have a positive or negative impact on you life?

When I started my blog two years ago, I was judged. Not everyone understood what I was doing, why I loved blogging so much and really why I was ALWAYS taking pictures.  At first, it would get to me that someone always had a comment to make always had to put in their two cents. But, I learned to accept the fact that not everyone will get it! On my journey in finding myself and on my creative road with my blog, I have had to drop acquaintances and have lost friends along the way. But if my "friends" weren't helping me in my process and cheering me on, they weren't worth keeping.

Top Tips For Surrounding yourself with Positive People

Always be yourself

To be able to attract the people you want around you, you have to stay true to yourself. If you aren't being yourself, you will attract the wrong people. As I've mentioned in prior posts, last year, I struggled with being true to myself. This year I made a promise to be me and to share that with the world. The good, the bad and the not so perfect. Embrace yourself! Be corky, let your hair down and don't be afraid to get get crazy. Let your self shine and when you do people will see the real you, you will then have people in your life who love you for you and want to be surrounded by you.

Make friends

Put yourself out there and make friends. I know, I know, what you're thinking, I don't need anymore friends. . It is important to make friends with similar interests.  Through Instagram, I have been able to network and connect with a lot of girls that are in my world! Some of which have become some of my closest friends. We are able to encourage each other and support each other because we understand each others worlds.

When I started blogging, I felt alone, no on understood what I was doing and I no one to talk to. It may be intimidating and scary to reach out and make friends but once you do it, it'll feel nice to have a support system! In no time, you will be surrounded by like-minded and supporting friends and maybe some will be come some of your closest.

Out with the old

The most important thing, is to distance yourself from the negativity and from the people that aren't encouraging you. You won't be able to surround yourself with likeminded people if you are surrounded by the wrong people. This doesn't necessarily mean to cut them out completely, but you may just need to distance yourself and reevaluate your crew. Once you get the negativity out of the way you will be able to focus on yourself and your happiness and those around you that make you happy!

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